Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: Who Is Your Ancestor #50?

This week's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun challenge from Randy Seaver was an interesting exercise, even if I didn't come up with much concrete information.

Here is your assignment, if you choose to play along (cue the Mission:  Impossible music, please!):

1.  Who is Ancestor #50 in your Ahnentafel list?  What were his birth date and place, his parents, death date and place, spouse's name, and marriage date and place.  How many children did he have, and which of his children do you descend from?
(Note: if you don't know your #50, then choose #25 or #12, or some other number).

2.  Share your information about #50 (or other) ancestor in your own blog post, write a comment on this blog post, or put it in a Substack post, Facebook Note, or some other social media system.  Please leave a comment on this post so others can find it.

Thank you to Lisa S. Gorrell for this week's SNGF challenge topic.

I don't routinely use Ahnentafel lists, so I had to look up how to figure out who #50 is on my list.  I used the reverse method #1 described on the Wikipedia page about Ahnentafels.  If I did it correctly, then #50 is my mother's father's father's mother's father, who is one of my 3rd-great-grandfathers.  It also means that the example using the method isn't accurate, because #1 is yourself.  But since Randy and other people who responded got 3rd-great-grandfather, I think I'm right.

So that means the person I should be writing about is:
mother Myra
grandfather Abraham
great-grandfather Moshe
great-great-grandmother Bela
3rd-great-grandfather UNKNOWN

I don't know Bela's maiden name or anything about her other than her given name.  I have her given name from my great-grandfather's death certificate.  I don't remember who the informant was for that, but it had to be one of his children, because his wife died 17 years before he did.  The older children may have known their grandparents, depending on when the grandparents died, because they were born in Kamenets Litovsk, where the family emigrated from.  So the name Bela might be correct.  My great-grandfather had a niece named Bela, so that lends some support to the name.

Even though I don't have any documented information about my 3rd-great-grandfather, I decided to write this about him to see what I could guess based on information I do have.

My great-grandparents Moshe and Mushe (Morris and Minnie in this country) named their first son Simcha, after Moshe's father.  I know that the second son, Herschel, was not named after Minnie's father, Gershon, or either of Minnie's grandfathers, Abraham or Ruven.  Maybe he was named after Moshe's grandfather, Bela's father.  I know that Moshe's sister Sore also named a son Herschel, so it's not an unreasonable hypothesis.  Moshe and Sore's grandfather was named Zvi, however, which is the Hebrew equivalent to Herschel, so their sons could have been named for him rather than their maternal grandfather.  But both men could have had the same name.  So now my 3rd-great-grandfather has a given name, even if it has a question mark after it.

I don't have a birth record for my granduncle Herschel, but the birth date he used in the United States is January 14, 1905.  So I can guess that my 3rd-great-grandfather had to have died before that date, because this part of my family followed the Ashkenazi Jewish minhag ("custom") of naming children after deceased ancestors.

To estimate 3rd-great-grandfather Herschel's birth year, I have to work from another hypothesized year.  I wrote recently about my great-great-grandfather Simcha Dovid Mekler, for whom I have no documented birth or death dates.  I estimated his birth year to be before about 1862 based on him being at least 21 when my great-grandfather Moshe was born.  Simcha Dovid was married to Bela, the daughter of 3rd-great-grandfather Herschel.  So if I say that Bela was two years younger than Simcha Dovid (just to pick a number), which would make her birth year before about 1864, and use the same logic that her father was at least 21 when she was born, that makes him born before about 1844.

I can estimate 3rd-great-grandfather Herschel's marriage to Bela's mother based on my estimate of Bela's birth year.  Since I made that before about 1864, the marriage year can be before about 1863.  As for whom Herschel married, the only other child I know of from Simcha Dovid and Bela's marriage was a daughter named Sore.  So maybe Bela's mother was named Sore.  I know that Simcha Dovid's mother's name was Esther, so Sore was not named after her.  On the other hand, Simcha Dovid had a sister and a niece named Sore, so the name was used in the Mekler family.

Because a common pattern seen in Ashkenazi Jewish families is that names skip one or two generations, it's possible that 3rd-great-grandfather Herschel's father was named Moshe.  Simcha Dovid's father was Zvi, as mentioned above, so my great-grandfather was not named after him.

Because the only location I have associated with my Mekler family is Kamenets Litovsk, Russia (now Kamyenyets, Belarus), my only guess for where 3rd-great-grandfather Herschel was born, married, and died is there.

I can put together the information from all of these hypotheses thusly:
Herschel (unknown family name), father possibly Moshe, mother unknown; born before about 1844 in Kamenets Litovsk, Russia; died before about January 14, 1905 in Kamenets Litovsk, Russia; married possibly Sore before about 1863 in Kamenets Litovsk, Russia.  I know of only one child, Bela, who is my great-great-grandmother.

I Used to Talk Like William Shakespeare

Well, maybe.  Kind of.

I performed at the Renaissance Pleasure Faires (unfortunately now part of Renaissance Entertainment Corporation) in California (originally held in Calabasas and Novato, then later in Devore and Vacaville [and Gilroy after that]) for several years.  (You can read more about the history here.)  They were nominally set in the Elizabethan era (as in Queen Elizabeth I of England) in an English village, roughly in the 1580's.  When they started, there was a strong focus on history and education.  At some point that included trying to sound like Elizabethans theoretically would have sounded.

And that brings us to Basic Faire Accent (BFA).  I was told it was originally inspired by the actor Robert Newton and how he spoke when he portrayed the pirate Long John Silver in the 1950 movie version of Treasure Island.  Apparently he was told at some point to make the character sound distinctive, so he used the local West County accent, where he grew up in England.  And it stuck.  That's how everyone thinks pirates should sound.

But someone thought that's close to how regular people would have sounded in the 1500's, and BFA was built on that logic.  So when you worked at the Faire, you were taught BFA in pre-Faire workshops (yes, we took workshops to educate us on what life and people would have been like in the Elizabethan period; like I said, it was started with an educational focus).  A good breakdown from someone who used to work at the same faires can be found here.

As written there, the short "a" is one of the more distinctive sounds, because it is always like the "a" in "apple."  You never say it the way we pronounce that letter in the word "want" nowadays.  Short "e" and short "i" are pretty much how we say them now, though.

Our warm-up in the morning to get us in the right linguistic mindset was reciting the 23rd Psalm from the Bible.  Here's the beginning, as best as I can write it with the pronunciation.  Don't forget that all those short a's are as in apple!

Thee loord is muh-ee shep-herd, Uh-ee shall not want.
He me-keth mee to luh-ee do-oon in green pas-tyoors.
He lay-deth mee bee-suh-eed thee still wa-ters.
He re-stoor-eth muh-ee so-ool.
He lay-deth mee in the path of ruh-ee-tee-us-ness foor his nems sek.
Yay, tho-oo Uh-ee wak throo the va-lee oov thee sha-duh-oo oov dayth,
Uh-ee shall fair no ee-vil,
Foor thuh-oo art with mee.
Thuh-ee rood and thuh-ee staff thay coom-foort muh-ee.

Now, whether Shakespeare actually sounded like this, I don't know!  I haven't heard anyone refute that BFA is a reasonable approximation of how people spoke in that era.  But today is "National Talk Like Shakespeare Day", celebrated on the anniversary of his death, which gave me an opportunity to remember fondly my days of speaking in Basic Faire Accent.

Wordless Wednesday

Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: An Unexpected Record Find

I'm sure everyone has something that would qualify for tonight's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun challenge from Randy Seaver.

Here is your assignment, if you choose to play along (cue the Mission:  Impossible! music, please!):

1.  Have you found an unexpected record recently (or at any time) in your genealogy and family history research?  A document, a book, an article, a letter, etc.

2.  This week, please tell us about that unexpected record find and how it helped your research.

3.  Share your unexpected record find and how it helped your research with us in your own blog post, by writing a comment on this blog post, or put it in a Substack post, Facebook Note, or some other social media system.  Please leave a comment on this post so others can find it.

Many years ago, I was searching for my great-great-grandfather's name in Google.  Many of the hits for Morris Brainin (searching in quotation marks) were on Ancestry, but one was more unusual.  It was on Google Books in a printed book.  I remember wondering why my immigrant great-great-grandfather's name was in a book.

The book is The Jewish Community Register of New York City, 1917–1918 (second edition), published and copyrighted by the Jewish Community of New York City in 1918.  The printer was Lipshitz Press of New York City.

I discovered that Morris Brainin was the president of the Abraham Lincoln Lodge No. 297, which met at 62 E. 6th Street on the 2nd and 4th Sundays of the month.  Morris was living at 1575 Madison Avenue, an address with which I am familiar because my grandmother was born there, at her grandparents' house.  The Secretary of the lodge was Henry Harrison of 367 So. Boulevard, a person and an address which I have been unable to identify yet.

The Abraham Lincoln Lodge was listed as being part of I.O.B.S., something else which I still have not identified.  I have been guessing that IO stands for International Order, but I can't find an organization with the initials.  B might be for Brother or Brotherhood.  But what is the S?

Whatever it is or was, Morris had been president of this lodge since 1914.  The short description included a birth year of 1859 in Russia and an arrival year of 1906 to the United States.  I have found the passenger list for his arrival, which was in 1906, and the birth year helped narrow down the range of years I had for his birth, which had previously been 1860 to 1863.  Now I lean more to him being a little older, born about 1859–1860.  He may or may not have known his actual birth date, and I haven't found it yet in Russian records.

The statement that he received a "general Jewish education" is interesting, because he was enumerated in at least one U.S. federal census as being a rabbi.  Apparently his education was not specifically that to become a rabbi, but he declared himself one here anyway.

Happy Birthday, Mark!

It's my brother's birthday!  And I've managed to put together a short (random) timeline of photos from over the years.

July 1963

Circa 1964-1965 (with me)

1967 (with me)

1971

1990's

2001 (with our father and sister)

Early 2000's (with our stepnephew)

Circa 2010's

Circa 2010's (with our father)

2016

2018 (with his son, wife, daughter, and me)

Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: An Ancestor without Exact Birth and Death Dates and Places

I'm posting a little late for this past Saturday Night Genealogy Fun from Randy Seaver, but since this topic is practically perfect for Jewish research, I had to weigh in.

Here is your assignment, if you choose to play along (cue the Mission:  Impossible! music, please!):

1.  Do you have an ancestor with no defined birth and death dates or places?

2.  This week, please tell us about that ancestor and what clues you used to estimate birth and death dates and places.

3.  Share your ancestor and his estimated birth and death dates and places with us in your own blog post, by writing a comment on this blog post, or putting it in a Substack post, Facebook Note, or some other social media system.  Please leave a comment on this post so others can find it.

And here I go.

1.  Do I?  Hoo, boy!  I have at least a dozen just on my Meckler line!  But every single one of my Jewish lines has ancestors like that.

2.  The ancestor I decided to write about is my great-great-grandfather Simcha Dovid Mekler (before about 1862–before about November 16, 1903).  I have his name from the yizkor book about Kamenets Litovsk, former Russian Empire (now Kamyenyets, Belarus).  He was the father of my great-grandfather Moshe Mekler, who went by Morris and Max here in the United States and eventually spelled his last name as Mackler.

I have no original documents about Simcha Dovid Mekler from Europe.  I have his parents' names, Zvi Mekler and Esther, from the yizkor book and from a cousin who was born in Kamenets Litovsk.

I estimated Simcha Dovid's death date based on the birth date that my granduncle chose after he immigrated to the United States.  Simcha Mekler was my grandfather's oldest brother.  He used the name Sam in this country, and Mekler became Meeckler at some point.  He was named after his grandfather Simcha, and because my Ashkenazi Jewish family members followed the minhag ("custom") of naming their their children after deceased ancestors, that means Simcha Dovid had to have died before my granduncle was born.  But because he didn't know his exact date of birth and I have no documents for it, it's a rough estimate.  The birth date he used for his Social Security application was November 16, 1903, and it's all I have to work with.

I based my very rough estimate of a birth year for Simcha Dovid on the ages for my great-grandfather Morris in the records I have found for him, including his incoming passenger list and several censuses.  He apparently was born roughly around 1882.  I have no documents with an actual birth date, so it's another estimate (he didn't apply for Social Security, as far as I can tell).  I don't know if Morris had any older siblings, but I figure his father was probably at least 21 years old when he was born, so I backdated it to before 1862.

As for where Simcha Dovid might have been born or died, we have another guessing game.  In his will, Morris Mackler left a bequest for a new tombstone for his father's grave in the cemetery in Kamenets Litovsk.  Morris Mackler was said to have been born in Kamenets Litovsk himself.  So my guess is that Simcha Dovid died in Kamenets Litovsk.  Because I have no other location associated with him or Mekler family members, my guess is that he was also born there.

Maybe someday I will find documents relating to Kamenets Litovsk about my family members, but I'm not holding my breath.  The Nazis were extremely thorough in destroying almost all archival material about Jews in Grodno gubernia, so there's hardly anything left.  I do want to investigate what is there, just in case there's something about my family, but I need to save a bunch of money to have the research done.  So this is as far as I can get for now.

Remembering My Family Members on Yom HaShoah

Yom HaShoah, the annual day of remembrance commemorating the deaths of the approximately 6 million Jewish victims of the Holocaust during World War II, falls on 27 Nisan of the Jewish calendar, which measures days from sunset to sunset.  This year it began last night, April 13, at sunset, and ended today, April 14, at sunset.

The following are my known family members I believe died in the Holocaust.  They all are from the Mekler/Nowicki branch of my family and lived in what was fornerly called Grodno gubernia in the Russian Empire (mostly now in Belarus).  I repeat their names every year to ensure that they are not forgotten.  May their memory be a blessing.

Beile Dubiner
Eliezer Dubiner
Herschel Dubiner
Moishe Dubiner
Sore (Mekler) Dubiner
Aidel Goldsztern
Golda Goldsztern
Josef Goldsztern
Pearl (Gorfinkel) Goldsztern
Tzvi Goldsztern
Esther Golubchik
Fagel Golubchik
Lazar Golubchik
Peshe (Mekler) Golubchik
Pinchus Golubchik
Yechail Golubchik
Mirka (Nowicki) Krimelewicz
— Krimelewicz
Beile Szocherman
Chanania Szocherman
Mobsza Eli Szocherman
Perel Szocherman
Raizl (Perlmutter) Szocherman
Zlate Szocherman

Beile Dubiner was my 1st cousin 2x removed.
She was likely named after her grandmother
(my great-great-grandmother) Beile.

Wordless Wednesday

Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: What Was a "Turning Point" in Your Parents' Life?

I'm still trying to catch up from missing last week's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun, but I'm happy to participate in this week's challenge from Randy Seaver!

Here is your assignment, if you choose to play along (cue the Mission:  Impossible music, please!):

1.  Family stories are often about "turning points" and "major decisions."

2.  This week, please describe a "turning point" in the life of one of your parents (or for both of them, or for grandparents).  Describe the decision and discuss the outcome of it.

3.  Share the turning point with all of us by writing your own blog post, writing a comment on this blog post, or putting it in a Substack post, Facebook Note, or some other social media system.  Please leave a comment on this post so others can find it.

From my perspective, probably the most important turning points in my parents' life was when my mother decided to go to a party with her best friend.  They were living in Miami at the time.  Their car broke down on the way to the party, and my mother was fretting about what they could do.  Her friend said, "Don't worry, my uncle is a mechanic.  I'll call him and he'll come fix it."  And that uncle became my father, because my mother's best friend was my first cousin.

I don't know when exactly this happened or the specifics of how things developed from there, but I do know that my parents were married October 21, 1961 and shortly thereafter left Florida and drove across the country to Los Angeles.  I'm pretty sure the first place they went was my godmother-to-be's home in Whittier.  Ruthie was my maternal grandmother's best friend.  My mother told Ruthie that she was pregnant (with me!) before she told my grandmother.

So if my mother hadn't decided to go to that party, I might not be here.  I guess my brother and sister wouldn't be either.  And maybe my father would have become a famous musician!

Wordless Wednesday