Showing posts with label Preuss. Show all posts
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Friday, March 14, 2025

The Invisible Man Turns 75

That's not actually what people used to call my stepfather.  They didn't say he was invisible.  They used to question whether he existed at all.

Ric was (and is) a very hard-working man.  So if we were going on a trip, he opted out, because he stayed at home and kept working.

So the running joke from people outside the immediate family became that he wasn't really there at all, and that my mother had made him up as a cover story.

But he's real, and he's still here.  He took good care of us after my parents divorced and he married my mother.  He took good care of her, or as good as he could, even when she didn't make it easy to do so.

And he has made it to 75 years old!  Something he had seriously questioned whether he was going to do.

I figured he would make it.  He had a good role model with his mother, our Grandmama, who lived to see her 90's.

So happy birthday, Ric, and congratulations on making it to three quarters of a century!  Let's see you make it to 100!

We love you!

Saturday, January 4, 2025

Significant Anniversaries of 2025

I haven't written about the milestones in my family tree for the past couple of years, but as I try to get back to a regular posting schedule, it's one of the topics I wanted to bring back.  I find it interesting to look at what happened years ago in my family (obviously, or I wouldn't be doing genealogy!), and I like to make sure these people and events are remembered.

200 Years Ago

In January 1825, my 3x-great-grandfather Abel A. Lippincott, son of Stacy B. Lippincott and Alice Parker, was born in New Jersey.  Because New Jersey is the real Quaker state, and because you can't go anywhere in New Jersey without tripping over lots of Lippincotts, I still don't have Abel's complete birth date or where in New Jersey he was born, because Lippincotts are just bloody hard to research.  I wish I could spend a month or two at the New Jersey State Archives and do some in-person research to sort all this out.  And if wishes were horses . . . .

150 Years Ago

Henry Heath, the great-great-grandfather of my aunt Mary McStroul and her sister Anna McStroul and the 3x-great-grandfather of my not-quite-cousin Angela Williams, died December 2, 1875 in Thurman, Warren County, New York.  He was originally from Surrey, England, born roughly between 1816 and 1819 in Haslemere, although I still need to nail that down.  He immigrated to the United States around 1838 and married Eliza Bullock in 1844 in Argyle, Washington County, New York.  I have names for his parents and grandparents but little information beyond that.  More research I need to catch up on!

100 Years Ago

My aunt Dorothy "Dottie" Mae Sellers, daughter of Bertram Lynn Sellers and Elizabeth Leatherberry Sundermier, was born October 29, 1925 in Trenton, Mercer County, New Jersey.  Technically Dottie was my half-aunt, because she was a child of my grandfather's first marriage.  Grampa was still married to Elizabeth while he and my grandmother were living together and my father came along.  (My father had no full siblings but had seven half-siblings, three from his mother and four from his father.)  I met Dottie when I was about 11 or 12 and then stayed in touch with her the rest of her life, through my moves and hers.  She lived to be 95 years old.  I'm still looking for the son she surrendered for adoption in 1945.

My great-great-grandfather Victor Gordon, originally Avigdor Gershovich Gorodetsky, died January 26, 1925 in Brooklyn, Kings County, New York.  He immigrated to the United States from the Russian Empire in 1914, bringing his two youngest sons with him but leaving his second wife behind (I was told by cousins that she did not want to come).  He lived long enough to see his second-youngest daughter (of eight children) get married, on December 31, 1924, for which occasion a wonderful oversized family photograph with about three dozen people in it was made.  I have a two-piece photocopy of the photograph; I'm working on getting it scanned and tiled so I can share it.

Henry Crawford, son of Wallace Crawford and Louisa, died April 25, 1925 in Upatoi, Muscogee County, Georgia at the age of about 69.  He is the great-great-grandfather of my not-quite-cousin Angela Williams on her father's side.  Henry was Black and born enslaved.  In 1917 he and four family members sued Standard Oil for gross negligence for having misrepresented an explosive for kerosene lamp oil.  Standard Oil settled out of court and they received payment for damages.

75 Years Ago

Richard Wesley Preuss, son of Richard Preuss and Donna Potter, was born March 14, 1950 in Missoula, Missoula County, Montana.  He is my stepfather.  He married my mother December 19, 1977 in Villa Tasso, Walton County, Florida, a small unincorporated community which might have had a grand total of about 200 people living in it.  He used to be a paint and body man, and I learned a great appreciation for car bodywork because of him (although I still don't know why he painted my father's Chevelle BFY).

50 Years Ago

This is one of those years when there was a significant birth, marriage, and death.

In 2021 I wrote about my first cousin Andy Meckler turning 50.  This time around, it's his brother, Todd Meckler, who turns 50.  They're the cousins I knew the most growing up, and it makes me feel really old to know that both of them will have hit the half-century mark.

Also on my mother's side of the family, her 1st cousin Yedida Marcia Amine, daughter of Moshe S. Amine and Florence Meckler, married Richard J. Merrill on December 24, 1975 in San Francisco, San Francisco County, California.  Aviva was born exactly one year after my mother, on Armistice Day, so they had a special connection.

The other notable event of 1975 for my family was the death of my grandfather's brother, George Moore "Dickie" Sellers, on March 26.  One day Grampa was out of town, and when I asked why, my mother told me that his brother had died.  To which my stunned reaction was, "Grampa has a brother?"  It was the first I had heard of him.  Several years later I met their youngest sister, Betty, who told me that his nickname Dickie came from the Dickie Do Flicker.  When I Google that, however, nothing comes up.  When I get no results from Google, I tend to think something is wrong.  Maybe it was an inside family joke.

Sunday, March 25, 2018

Events in My Family Tree: March 14

I think this list has the first Russian Empire date on the calendar that I was able to confirm.

Births

Richard Wesley Preuss, son of Richard Preuss and Donna, was born March 14, 1950 in Missoula, Missoula County, Montana.  He was married to my mother, Myra Roslyn Meckler, daughter of Abraham Meckler and Lillyan E. Gordon, and is my stepfather.

Bobie Helen Wood was born March 14, 1969.  She is my 5th cousin 2x removed on my Gauntt line.

Abilgail Elizabeth Tucker was born March 14, 2004 in Middletown, Butler County, Ohio.  She is the grandniece of my aunt Mary McStroul.


Marriages

Lewis Cass Gaunt, son of Uz Gaunt and Sarah Ann Whitacre, and Mary A. Kindlesparger were married March 14, 1874 in Wabash County, Indiana.  Lewis is my 2nd cousin 4x removed.

Sidney Gordon, son of Joe Gordon and Sarah Libby Brainin, and Beatrice Roll were married on March 14, 1942 in Brooklyn, Kings County, New York.  He is my great-granduncle.

Steven Mark Spina and Kip Marie Sellers were married on March 14, 1981 on the White Sands Missile Range Post, Doña Ana County, New Mexico.  Kip is my 7th cousin.

Michael Joseph Hoffman and Carol Roberta Rudin, daughter of Raymond Harold Rudin and Ruth Garfinkel, were married on March 14, 1982 in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.  Carol is my 4th cousin on my Meckler line through the Garfinkels.


Deaths

Baby Gorodetsky, child of Avigdor Gorodetsky and Esther Leah Schneiderman, died March 14, 1902 (Julian dating), probably at the age of less than one day, in Kishinev, Bessarabia gubernia, Russian Empire (now Chișinău, Moldova).  The child was my great-grandaunt or great-granduncle.

Sarah A. Cover died March 14, 1906 at the age of 77, possibly in Ohio.  She was married to George Mack, son of John Mack and Mary Woolsey, who is my 3rd cousin 4x removed.

Belle Silberman died March 2004 at the age of 91, possibly in Los Angeles County, California.  She was married to Fred Lincoln McStroul (originally Strul), son of Leo Martin McStroul and Anna Krebs, who is the uncle of my aunt Mary McStroul.